Ever since I was little, I’ve heard snippets of details and rumours surrounding my mysterious great-grandfather, and I am only just starting to find out more about him. Here’s a bit of what I know so far, although I must point out that some of it could well be hearsay!
Herbert John Collett was born in 1899 to Lucy Ellen Collett. Lucy would have been around 27 years old when Herbert was born, and she gave him her own maiden name as it is not clear who Herbert’s absentee father really was.
According to a Collett Family History website, this passage (http://collettfamilyhistory.net/Part-46-The-Charlton-on-Otmoor-(Oxon)-Area-Line-1870-to-2011-Rev.18.htm) describes Lucy’s father, George Collett, working as a brewer’s labourer at The Rose & Crown Inn – which he and his family lived adjacent to – in the 1881 census. This is a potentially key detail, so keep this in mind for later!
Although Herbert was clearly a ‘base born’ (i.e. illegitimate) child, it is interesting to note that Lucy was allowed to raise him within her family – from what I’ve read, this was quite a rare occurrence in those days due to the shame it brought upon families of children conceived out of wedlock. It is also nice to see that Henry Walduck, who later became Lucy’s husband, seems to have adopted Herbert alongside his own children with Lucy, although Herbert still kept his mother’s maiden name.
Rumours within my family have always stated that a ‘Major Morrell’ could have been Herbert’s biological father. Supposedly, there were letters to and from Lucy and this Morrell character, and money was exchanged in order to keep her quiet about their affair. However, if these letters did indeed exist, they’ve since been lost over the course of time.
A quick Google search for ‘Major Morrell, Oxfordshire’ resulted in me finding a man by the name of Major Philip Edward Morrell (born in 1870), who’s family made their fortune in the brewery business. The Major attended Eton School and Balliol College, Oxford, and later had a career in politics. Within his personal life, it appears that he was a bit of a Casanova… He married a Lady Ottoline Cavendish-Bentinck in 1902, and was cited as having many extramarital affairs. Lady Ottoline even ended up raising some of his bastard children! As they married in 1902, it is plausible to assume that Philip and Ottoline could have already been betrothed around the time that Herbert was conceived. Being involved in his family’s brewery business, it is also possible that Philip and Lucy could have met if the Morrell’s ever frequented The Rose & Crown Inn, Bicester. Obviously, Philip’s highly respected family wouldn’t have wanted any adverse publicity, so it is quite likely that if he and Lucy did conceive a child out of wedlock, they would have wanted it kept quiet; it certainly wasn’t unheard of for rich families to pay off unmarried mothers to keep quiet in those days!
Herbert eventually joined the British army during WW1 (I’ll list the battallion later when I can find it again!). My grandmother, Joyce Margaret Burgess (nee Collett – Herbert’s daughter with his wife Lilian Ayris) was only young when her father died, but she clearly remembered that Herbert was acting out of character for several months prior to his death. We now believe that he was suffering from PTSD from the horrors of WW1, for which he would have lied about his age, and didn’t want to risk being called up for the impending WW2. He was apparently found dead in either the Bicester Cricket or Football Clubhouse, after ‘falling onto’ some sort of weapon, possibly a scythe. Despite his death being ruled as accidental, my grandmother was convinced that it was suicide. I intend to order his death certificate to add to my research.
My aunt is in possession of 3 medals which were awarded to Herbert Collett, one of which was supposedly only awarded a few times during the first world war, for extreme bravery. Sadly, the piece of paper detailing how he earned it has been lost, so I also hope to discover what he did.
If anyone has any information about the Collett family in Bicester, I’d be very grateful if they could email me: Simons.karen1993@gmail.com
Here are the names I am most interested in researching:
Herbert John Collett
Lucy Ellen Collett/Walduck
George or William Collett
Fanny Collett (nee Stone)

Photo: Major Philip Edward Morrell, taken in 1902.